Eps. 41
Date: 3/10/26
Title: The Hidden Story of Special Needs Siblings: Growing Up with Disability and Raising a Child with Autism with Sandra Peoples
Summary: What is it really like to grow up as the sibling of a child with disabilities? How does that experience shape the way you parent your own family?
In this episode of This Unexpected Life, Carrie Holt talks with Sandra Peoples, a disability ministry consultant, author, professor, and mom of a son with level-three autism. Sandra shares her unique perspective of living on both sides of the story: growing up with a sister with Down syndrome and now raising a child with significant autism.
Sandra opens up about the hidden experiences many siblings carry — from trying to make themselves “smaller,” so their parents have less to worry about, to navigating embarrassment, protectiveness, and love.
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Together, Carrie and Sandra discuss:
- What Sandra’s parents did well in raising a special needs sibling
• The stage of life that can be most difficult for siblings
• How parents can validate difficult emotions without guilt or shame
• Navigating responsibility and avoiding unhealthy parentification
• Why disability families are still one of the most overlooked mission fields in the church
If you’re raising a child with disabilities and wondering how this journey is shaping your other children, this honest and grace-filled conversation will offer both wisdom and encouragement.
Resources:
Find Sandra on FB and Instagram
Sandra’s Website
Sandra’s Book: Accessible Church
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- My book: The Other Side of Special
This podcast features honest conversations with special needs parents and faith-filled guests. While I deeply value the stories and insights shared, the views and opinions expressed may not always reflect my own. Likewise, anything listed as resources is shared for reference, not necessarily a personal recommendation. I invite you to listen with spiritual discernment and ask the Holy Spirit to guide in what you hold onto and set aside.
